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Other Determined
Behaviour
(Effects on self)
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Balanced Self Determined
Behaviour
(Effects on self)
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Selfish Determined
Behaviour
(Effects on self)
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You
become self-denying
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Is
self enhancing
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Is
self enhancing at the expense of others
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You
become inhibited, passive
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You
are expressive and active
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You
are expressive and aggressive
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You
do not achieve your goals
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You
may achieve your desired goals
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You
achieve you goals by hurting others
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You
allow others to choose for you
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You
choose for yourself
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You
choose for others
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You
become hurt and anxious
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You
feel good about yourself
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You
depreciate others
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(Effects on others)
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(Effects on others)
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(Effects on others)
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Others
can become guilty or angry
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Enhances
others
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Denys
others selves
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Depreciates
others
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Expressive
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Others
become hurt, defensive, humiliated
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Achieves
goals at your expense
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They
may achieve desired goals
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They
do not achieve desired goals
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