Other Determined
Behaviour
(Effects on self)
|
Balanced Self
Determined Behaviour
(Effects on self)
|
Selfish Determined
Behaviour
(Effects on self)
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| You become self-denying |
Is self enhancing |
Is self enhancing at the expense of others |
| You become inhibited, passive |
You are expressive and active |
You are expressive and aggressive |
| You do not achieve your goals |
You may achieve your desired goals |
You achieve you goals by hurting others |
| You allow others to choose for you |
You choose for yourself |
You choose for others |
| You become hurt and anxious |
You feel good about yourself |
You depreciate others |
(Effects on others) |
(Effects on others) |
(Effects on others) |
| Others can become guilty or angry |
Enhances others |
Denys others selves |
| Depreciates others |
Expressive |
Others become hurt, defensive, humiliated |
| Achieves goals at your expense |
They may achieve desired goals |
They do not achieve desired goals |